Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Christmas Time…


For us Christmas seems to really start with the annual carols at Uncle Terry’s neighbours, with music by the Morris crew, and professional musician neighbours (and professional musician son). It is a pot-luck dinner with friends and neighbours and has a convivial and uplifting feel to it that sets the scene for the festive period.

There were several changes to our Xmas schedule brought on by unforeseen circumstances such as the sad death of Blonde Deb’s mother, the Whitenburys became ill with a norovirus, and Uncle Terry suffering with a nasty cold-like virus. We stayed with Deb and extra night and visited the Woodman and community owned The Hope where she and Sue caught up with old friends, and next day we decamped for our place and had a relaxing day watching telly at home.

The annual GPE Walk with current and ex-work colleagues was organised this year by Rob and we spent an enjoyable time at the quirky Kingfisher on the Quay in Camberley.

On one day between Xmas and New Year Sue and I watched rugby at Twickenham between Harlequins and Wasps (a scrappy game where Harlequin eventually won). The tickets courtesy of Marc Harrison who couldn’t make it that day.

We had a walk in the low-lying clouds at Reigate Hill with the recovered Whittenburys and Paul and Lorraine (plus dogs) and we went back to P&L’s for a lovely roast dinner.

New Year’s Eve spent at home with the Whittenburys playing a few games, eating lots of cheese and watching Jools Hootananny until the early hours

On New Year’s Day, we went for a walk around the village ending up at the Prince of Wales with the Whittenburys and Reg.





Musicians against homelessness…


In November three of the pubs in Dorking, The Star, the Old Home and the Kings Arms hosted a musical weekend to support the charity Musicians Against Homelessness.

We wandered between venues and caught some very entertaining artists including 3 Men & a Buddha, Box Hill Bedlam, Jess Milne, Kitty, Fillerup, Mr Anchovy and Exlectix amongst others.

Tuesday, November 06, 2018

Playing around…


Played a couple of the new games (Photosynthesis and Gorus Maximus) with Chris and Carole and guess what? Sue won both games.

European Tour…


We started our northern European tour by crossing through the Channel Tunnel one evening and stopping overnight at the basic but cheap Ibis Budget Calais Tunnel sous la Manche at Coquelles. This enabled us to get an early start for the long drive to the Essen game fair, crossing through France, Belgium, Netherlands and into Germany. We got to the show mid-afternoon and found all the regular carparks full, so after a long diversion, we ended up at the remote carpark number 10. It was a very busy show for a Thursday with lots of kids about, so it must be holiday time in Europe. Sue was quite overwhelmed by the scale of the show and started to appreciate what it is like for me when visiting. We met David and Kotie there, who had driven up from their home in Antwerp. We were staying, as always, at Mulheim an dur Ruhr at the Handelshof Hotel.

We had only planned to stay two nights before moving on for our holiday. The first night we had dinner in the hotel and caught up with a few people. Sue spent the following day quietly in Mulheim, wandering about or reading at the hotel, while the rest of us went back to the show. That evening, we had a lovely traditional meal at the Mausefalle ‘mousetrap’ with David and Kotie (pig knuckle is their speciality).

Next morning we drove down to Cologne where we planned to stay a couple of nights at the Mercure Hotel Severinshof Koeln City.

We walked into the old town and had a look about where we found a quirky bar called Papa Joe’s Biersalon where they had many different coin-operated animatronic musical machines (including the puppenband) and with a full house the place was vibrant and lively, we had a couple of beers and shared a pretzel and apple cake.

The town is dominated by a large cathedral (biggest in Germany) and we visited it and the glittering treasure chamber rooms. It was the weekend so the town was heaving and since it was almost levelled in the war much of the architecture was relatively new and uninteresting. It was also quite dirty and grey looking.

In the evening, we went to the Papa Joe’s Jazzlokal club (part of the same group as the Beirsalon) to see some enjoyable jazz-blues music. The jazz club does not serve food, so we nipped across the road to a take away joint that prepared fabulous slices of pork in a bun. This club has a reputation for being one of the oldest still running in the world and has music every night. They cram the people in like they do in New Orleans and it had a great buzzing atmosphere, unfortunately after all that excitement I needed a lie down.

The next morning, we took a different route and walked towards the river (stopping for breakfast at a bakery on the way). The area we stared at had been redeveloped and new crane inspired ‘kranhaus’ buildings had been built for commercial and residential use. It was a pleasant stroll as we passed the old Olympic building and past the chocolate museum (we didn’t succumb to temptation though there were a queue of people waiting for it to open). We crossed over and went up a tall building to get a panoramic view back across the river of the city. Afterwards we crossed back passed the ‘love-locks’ that cover railings along the railway bridge. We had lovely rustic lunch back at Papa Joe’s (which was much quieter on the Sunday) and then strolled through the old town into the new passed the original Farina eau de cologne and 4711perfumeries. We picked up an apple strudel and headed back to the hotel for the evening.

We drove on to s’Hertogenbosch (Den Bosch) in the Netherlands (where I had visited many years before with work) we took a canalboat tour along the Binnendieze, that runs through and under the old town, after having a lovely lunch at the Bolwerk. After we walked through the delightful town and visited the cathedral, the liquorice and sweet shop called Tum Tum, and had the local delicacy Boschebol (a huge profiterole the size of a child’s head – we shared it) at the famous Jan de Groot bakers.

Our hotel was across the road and was called the Little Duke (the full name of the town translates somewhat to mean the Duke’s forest, and they have a larger hotel in town. This smaller one had no common facilities and even had an automated check-in/check-out system).

In the evening, we went to the fun and lively DIT for a meal where we enjoyed traditional bar snacks such as bitterballen and broodjes along with some fusion Asian food. The town is obviously quite wealthy as is evidenced by the design and trendy boutique shops, and by the interesting breakfast the following morning at CoffeeLab (coffee flavoured acai bowl and mini pancakes dressed with grapefruit and granola). Before we continued our journey, we had a visit to the Hieronymus Bosch exhibition (a local 15/16th C artist renowned for his disturbing religious imagery of hell), in the display were reproductions of his works (often triptychs with a story to them) and modern, three dimensional models of his more bizarre characters from the paintings.

It had been quite a revelation to us how close everywhere seems to be in mainland Europe, each of our stops being within two hours of each other, however, I would not recommend driving into Antwerp now as the place has always been busy and now with major road works it is a nightmare. The wet weather didn’t help, so with the later start, the traffic and the weather, we didn’t get to see much before we drove out to meet Dave and Kotie at their place. We all went back into town on the more efficient tram. The old city centre looked attractive with the clever lighting and the reflections in the wet cobbles. We ate at Pelgrom where they have a large number of beers and sell flights of them for sampling (which we did). The food is wholesome fare and tasty. We stayed over with David and Kotie at their house and returned to the old town early in the morning to wander around and visit the Cathedral (which had an exhibition that included original Rubens – a local boy – paintings, along with some interesting modern artworks).

Getting to Bruges was much easier and checked into the Velotel, which was further out of town than we would have liked, but as we left it late to book and didn’t realise that All Saints Day was a public holiday, it was the best option for us. It did mean a 40min walk into the old town, but luckily the weather was glorious. We had a beer on the main square and watched the crowds of tourists before joining them and wandered around admiring the architecture and views. We ate and sampled another beer flight at the Bourgogne des Flandres brewery, which has a canal side terrace. We had another drink at a bar decorated for Halloween before having a disappointing meal on the square.
Breakfast the next margining was at the cute and trendy Cafune coffee shop and fortified we wandered around some more before retiring for a leisurely and lovely lunch at ‘t Nieuw Walnutje in a one of the many pretty squares around town.

On way home stopped a Dunkirk to visit the moving Operation Dynamo exhibition and walk along the beaches, before loading the car up with goodies sourced at a wine shop and supermarket and getting the train back to old Blighty.

Soul Sisters…


Recently Sue went to see Soul II Soul with her sister and sister-in-law and friends at Brighton and had a good time getting their groove on.

Racing Hero…


Motor racing hero Rob Walker was celebrated with a car parade through Dorking recently as his famous independent race team was based in the area. Several F1 cars along with other classics were driven around the high street in grand exhaust warbling style.

Unusual Celebration…

For our friend, Dave’s 50th a group of his family and friends met at Borough Market for a few drinks before going off to join a very entertaining Jack the Ripper Tour that ended up at Spitalfields Market where we had a few more drinks before getting a meal at a nearby Meze Bar. A slightly unusual choice to celebrate your birthday, but everyone enjoyed themselves thoroughly.

Wednesday, October 03, 2018

More wot I have read…


Silence by Shusaku Endo

This was a book written in 1966 but in such a way as it felt like translations from letters written by the characters. It was interesting to appreciate another part of history that I was not aware of, but the narrative itself did not engage me at all.

‘A Japanese Catholic, Endo tells the story of two seventeenth-century missionaries attempting to shore up the oppressed Japanese Christian movement. Father Rodrigues has come to Japan to find the truth behind unthinkable rumours that his famous teacher, Ferreira has renounced his faith. But, after his arrival, he discovers that the only way to help the brutally persecuted Christians may be to apostatize himself.’



More of romp through a fantasy world this story was quite silly, but it had diverting characters and rollicking action. A bit of time waster.

‘Welcome to Low Town.

Here, the criminal is king. The streets are filled with the screeching of fish hags, the cries of swindled merchants, the inviting murmurs of working girls. Here, people can disappear, and the lacklustre efforts of the guard ensure they are never found.

Warden is an ex-soldier who has seen the worst men have to offer; now a narcotics dealer with a rich, bloody past and a way of inviting danger. You'd struggle to find someone with a soul as dark and troubled as his.

But then a missing child, murdered and horribly mutilated, is discovered in an alley.

And then another.

With a mind as sharp as a blade and an old but powerful friend in the city, he's the only man with a hope of finding the killer.

If the killer doesn't find him first.’

Green Fingers…


We have had a mixed year in the vegie garden as we had a late and wet spring followed by a very dry and hot summer. Sue has spent a lot of time watering, weeding and generally tending the crops and our most unusual success were two avocado plants growing out of the compost.

Bonny Scotland…


Recently we visited Jamie and Gia at their new house in Edinburgh for the weekend.
It had been some time since we had been in Edinburgh so we did a little sightseeing on our own before meeting up again for a catch up. During our stay, we played a few games, enjoyed the company of their friends and watched a movie.

On Saturday, we went to lunch at a fabulous restaurant called Forage & Chatter that specialised in Scottish inspired dishes. It was delightful and friends commented that the name of the place suited Sue and I very much. We also had a few cocktails at an eclectic bar called Paradise Palms.

On Sunday, we took a long walk along the Water of Leith to Leith itself, from near Dean Village via Stockbridge Market (where I picked up a black pudding scotch egg), stopping for a ‘snack’ at The Ship on the Shore (oysters and champagne for the girls, muscles and calamari and beer for Jamie and me. We returned via Holyrood Park past Arthur’s Seat (luckily, we didn’t have to climb it), the Palace of Holyrood house, Scottish Parliament, the old town beside Edinburg Castle, and finally eating stonking burgers at Foundry 39 (where there was a case of unfortunate mistaken identity – Scotch Bonnet for a dehydrated tomato on Bloody Mary).

Art and Nature…


On a bright autumn day, we visited the RHS Wisley as we are members and we like the gardens. It just so happened that the Surrey Sculpture Society were displaying artwork throughout the gardens and so we followed the trail around enjoying the mix of art and nature.

In and Out in London…


Having enjoyed visiting several interesting places last year with the Open House London weekend event, we decided to do it again this year and we invited my Uncle Terry to join us.

Our route took in some very interesting places such as Foreign & Commonwealth Office, The Banqueting House, Admiralty House, Burlington House (Chemistry, Linnaeus, and Geology Societies), the personable Argentine Ambassador’s Residence and the very grand Guildhall.

We also took in a couple of public houses by way of an interlude and respite, the Golden Lion – King Street and Ye Olde Watling – Watling Street.

Put your hands up…


Listening to our regular radio station I was inspired to book tickets for the Radio 2 All Star Party at Bridlington Spa. Unfortunately, after securing them I found out there was no accommodation in town. This error was compounded when I looked for accommodation further afield on the main train route and booked in at the Star Inn at Nafferton. But I booked for the Friday night and the event was on Saturday. Trying again they did not have vacancy for the Saturday, so I ended up booking a different place for the Saturday. A couple of days before the event I looked at the timetable for the trains and discovered that they were not running on Saturday due to industrial action. Sheesh!

So, on the Friday we had a leisurely drive up to Yorkshire stopping for a visit to the interesting and educational National Trust Workhouse in Southwall.

We drove down towards Bridlington the next morning, taking the Scenic Route and stopping briefly at a church in Rudston with an enormous Neolithic monolith (apparently, the tallest standing stone in Britain) as well as two Roman sarcophagi in the churchyard. At Bridlington, we walked down through the old town (used in the Dad’s Army remake), and then went to the seashore and wandered along the lovely beach, through the harbour and past the amusement arcades.

Near lunchtime we drove up the coast towards Scarborough, but the traffic was heavy (there was a jazz festival on in town) so we continued to Whitby where it was equally busy. We ended up going to the beautiful village at Robin Hoods Bay where we eat a seafood lunch in the Bay Hotel listening to a group singing sea shanties on the boat ramp.

Our second hotel was the Bell Inn at Driffield, and we checked in and had a bit of a rest prior to the party later.

The show was live performances of three of the Saturday night shows hosted by Trevor Nelson, Craig Charles and Ana Matronic in turn. There was also live music from the following: Clean Bandit, Incognito, Lemar, Kid Creole & The Coconuts, Fantasy Funk Band featuring Gabrielle, Jaki Graham and John Turrell.

After several hours of standing and dancing about we eventually bailed just after midnight with very sore feet.

Wednesday, September 05, 2018

South Coast Sunshine…


There are several lovely spots along this stretch of coastline but Ferring beach is one that is dog friendly and that is the main reason we visited with the Whittenburys and their crazy hound. After a walk along the pebble beach and a paddle in the water we had a tasty lunch at the licensed BlueBird Café. It was such a hit that Sue returned with other friends and their dogs for another visit soon after.

Game Daze…


This time of the year it is difficult to get all our gaming friends together as holidays and other commitments get in the way, nevertheless I managed to sessions of board games recently – one at Derek’s with Martin, and then at Kevin’s also with Martin. I do enjoy playing but I am not particularly adept and it shows as I rarely win a game, but I still had fun.

Under a Shady Tree…


One hot summer’s day (we have had a few of those this year) we ventured out to Winkworth Arboretum where we could walk under the shade of the many and varied trees and around by the serene pond. Nearby is Oakhurst Cottage, a small 16th century home that has not changed much over the hundreds of years (the National Trust did install a cold water tap in the house for the occupants at their request, but this has since been removed), as it is small, old and fragile the house is only open at certain times and usually as part of pre-booked tours.

Out in the Fresh Air…


This beautiful summer weather has enabled us to spend a lot of time outdoors and as the seasons change to autumn we are reaping the rewards for the hard work in the garden (harvesting crops and flowers to eat fresh, freeze for later in the year and for to pickle and turn into jams and sauces). We have been out walking in the countryside that we are blessed with around home and have foraged through the hedgerows for blackberries to add to our bounty.

A Long Weekend…


Starting on Friday evening with Sue cooking a wonderful dinner for us, her sister Deb, and the Whittenbury clan. It was a good night with plenty of chat, laughter and libations.

The following day we decided to walk some of the excesses off in the local countryside collecting blackberries and wild apples and taking a new route that passed the Dorking Community Orchard and stopping for a little drink at a local pub or three.

Saturday evening, we went to an informal dinner party at a friend’s place with our neighbour and mutual Howard. The host, Neil, had arranged for the food to be cooked by his friend, a former Italian chef, Alex. We had a great time watching Alex create his magic in the kitchen and we perhaps should have stopped there – but martinis were beckoning to some of our party back at Howards.

Sunday was a wet and dreary day so the girls took to the kitchen to create magic and I sloped off to the attic to play on the computer. Later that night we ventured out to the Kings Arms in Dorking to watch, listen and dance to the very entertaining local band the Eclectix.

Bank Holiday Monday was nicer weather so in the afternoon we went to nearby Polesden Lacey where they have live jazz playing to audiences on the main lawn during summer. We had arranged to meet with the Whittenbury’s, Deb and Linda and Mark for a picnic and a relax.

Sussex Prairie Gardens…

The Sussex Prairie Gardens had been on our list to visit for a while so when our friends Paul and Lorraine said they had a stand at a show being held there, we decided to go visit and arranged to meet the Brown there too. The gardens are relatively new (ten years or so) and are laid out in a spiral of beds, some of the outer ones raised to offer wider views. As suggested by the name the planting uses a lot of grasses as might be found on the prairies. The site was quite crowded due to the show, but even so clever planting allowed guests to walk into the beds and find some respite in secluded spaces contained within. After our visit, we went with the Browns to a pub for a late lunch before returning home. I think this is a place we will return to on a non-show day to see it at its best. 

More wot I have read…



I was not sure about this book, thinking it would play more with the mystical themes revealed early one, but which spent a lot more time as a family drama unfolding separately for each offspring. The way people react to information they think will impact their lives is an interesting theme and the different responses were well realised, but overall it was a less than satisfying story for me.

‘It's 1969, and holed up in a grimy tenement building in New York's Lower East Side is a travelling psychic who claims to be able to tell anyone the date they will die. The four Gold children, too young for what they're about to hear, sneak out to learn their fortunes.

Over the years that follow, the siblings must choose how to live with the prophecies the fortune-teller gave them that day. Will they accept, ignore, cheat or defy them? Golden-boy Simon escapes to San Francisco, searching for love; dreamy Klara becomes a Las Vegas magician; eldest son Daniel tries to control fate as an army doctor after 9/11; and bookish Varya looks to science for the answers she craves.’


The Ballad of Halo Jones Volume 2 by Alan Moore and Ian Gibson




Another interesting concept provided as a mechanic to this story, but not what it is about at all. I got lost in what the author was trying to get across to me and I found the narrative ponderous and a bit tiresome.

‘In a country teetering on the brink of civil war, two young people meet—sensual, fiercely independent Nadia and gentle, restrained Saeed. They embark on a furtive love affair and are soon cloistered in a premature intimacy by the unrest roiling their city. When it explodes, turning familiar streets into a patchwork of checkpoints and bomb blasts, they begin to hear whispers about doors—doors that can whisk people far away, if perilously and for a price. As the violence escalates, Nadia and Saeed decide that they no longer have a choice. Leaving their homeland and their old lives behind, they find a door and step through.’




I was intrigued by the premise of this story and found it entertaining in execution. Again, as in many of these books, there are deeper themes at play throughout, but they do not takeover or distract too much from the narrative. And I do like the title very much.

‘Listen.

All the world forgets me. First my face, then my voice, then the consequences of my deeds.

So listen. Remember me.

My name is Hope Arden, and you won't know who I am. We've met before - a thousand times. But I am the girl the world forgets.

It started when I was sixteen years old. A slow declining, an isolation, one piece at a time.

A father forgetting to drive me to school. A mother setting the table for three, not four. A teacher who forgets to chase my missing homework. A friend who looks straight through me and sees a stranger.

No matter what I do, the words I say, the people I hurt, the crimes I commit - you will never remember who I am.

That makes my life tricky. But it also makes me dangerous...’